All couples get into it sometimes, but arguments that don’t end are not okay
Everywhere where people come together, disagreements sometimes come to the light. We will always be different from each other. And while quarrels between partners can be considered a normal part of the relationship, experts say it’s how couples handle these that will determine the overall health of the relationship over time.
That’s why it’s good to have some sweet, charming tricks up your sleeve to end the bickering
- Stay close to each other
When tensions run high, you just want to run away to your room and let out a scream. But no, you shouldn’t. It may be more helpful to sit close together and touch each other if you want you to come together. For example with the legs or knees against each other.
2. Listen
Well, that is quite difficult. Because you want to say what you want to say, right? Otherwise it will never come to your solution. Maybe you have those little, recurring arguments. About how to hang a towel, for example. Try to agree with them a little bit. Asking for an explanation can also help enormously. And then just listen.
3. Take a break
Sometimes it helps to catch your breath. Just say when you’re back to continue talking, so tell him when you’re taking a break. This way you can come together better later.
You take a moment to think about what your partner has told you and you take him or her seriously.
4. Argue somewhere else
A change of scenery gives relief. One of the best ways to end an argument, in the sense that you want to make up with each other, is to resume the conversation elsewhere. Go to a cafe, or go home if you are grunting at each other in a restaurant. Are you on the phone? Then suggest meeting somewhere to talk in person. Are you physically together? Try sending a text so that you can read each other’s arguments better and think for a moment before making a response. That can make a lot of difference.
5. Get naked
Are you at home? Do you feel comfortable and relaxed in the nude? Then take off your clothes and try something new. It has been scientifically proven that it is much more difficult for people to stay angry with each other naked. This way you can be vulnerable with each other and see the humanity of your partner. And it is quite sweet to discuss naked. It helps in a charming way to get rid of the discussion once and for all.
